As the stinky socks were turned right side in and the sweaty hat was thrown in for its final disinfecting, I felt a chapter in my life close.
His team, the Nationals, finished the regular season in first place with an impressive 15-5 record, this despite losing their All-star catcher mid-season to a retinal detachment, a blow from which no one ever expected the team would recover. However, they played substandard ball in the tournament coupled with some additional "staffing handicaps", and before its midpoint, the Nationals were eliminated.
The last two years we played in the championship game, so an exit at this point left me with a far too early sensation of what am I going to do with myself now. So I'll write...
It is hard to believe that I sat through seven springs of this...
I didn't always love it. When Nicky was 6 and played Tball, I sat on my folding chair rolling my eyes in response to the sheer drudgery of it all. Every little MuckDog, that was actually the team name, the Muckdogs, came up to bat in every inning and I swear there were like 18 of them. Each painfully swung and many missed, even when the ball sat on a Tee. A ball fielded, thrown to first, and actually caught was a signal of a possible future scholarship opportunity.
But this was our foundation. Three of the boys on this team are still among Nicholas' best friends. We are still close to all three of the coaches seven seasons later. We can still name most of the players on the team and half are still playing majors level ball in Los Gatos. These were they days when boys learned to love baseball.
The T-Ball Los Gatos Muckdogs
The next year was at the single A level, more affectionately know as machine pitch (though now I hear there is no machine). This team was practically the same as the Muckdogs, except for
At least in single A, when there were three outs the inning was over....I think.
The Single A LGLL Indians
|A real pitcher!|
Double A was the first year I remember having fun. The AA stands were small and usually dirty, so the warm spring months lured us and our blankets and lawn chairs to the outfield, where we frequently sipped on Chardonnay and margaritas and munched on chips while waiting for our boys to make contact. It was also this year that there seemed to be something to cheer for. Wins and losses were actually tracked and there was actually a recordable score at the end of the game. I learned to cheer and I learned to cheer loudly. I also remember this year being the first in which I worried that they might not win.
Sitting on the bench at the Double A Field
The AA Giants at the San Jose Giants game
This is one of my all time favorites
The transition to AAA was a hard one. 'Chief''s son was a year younger and was staying in AA, as was 'Chief.' Added to this was the fact that most of Nicky's best friends were staying in AA another year, either because they weren't ready to move on or because they were younger. By Little League age and by ability, however, Nicks really needed to move up, so we threw ourselves into the AAA draft.
We did not show up for tryouts because we thought one of Chief's co coaches was going to coach and was going to draft Nicky. He did not coach and he did not draft Nicky.
Triple A games are played across town at Balzer field. Some love Balzer because it's quiet and cozy. However, it is easy to feels isolated from the rest of Los Gatos Little League out there. Generally, the two years we spent playing at Balzer had many happy memories, and I was sorry when we had to go back to the 'big ballpark.'
In AAA there is no sitting in the outfield, as the boys really do hit that far. For the first time there is a measured outfield wall, which balls occasionally go over, clearing the bases. There are real stands with a home and an away side, though the mixing of the two is quite frequent. There is a real scoreboard, usually controlled poorly by younger siblings, which informs everyone where the game stands. Players can steal bases.
Our first year in Triple A was tough. Nicky was the youngest player on the team. The boys that were two years older were poor examples of good sportsmanship. Nicholas only batted like .275 that year and sat on the bench a lot. The team couldn't bat at all from like the 6 spot on (and in AAA the whole team of 12 bats) and finished with a losing record. The second year of AAA was worlds better. We won a lot and Nicky started to catch and pitch and play shortstop.
The LGLL Triple A Reds
Triple AAA was about the level I started to really care about what happened in the games, especially in the second year. In AAA was when I started to pace the Los Gatos Creek Trail instead of watching my son close out the last inning of a tight game. In AAA was the first time I remember not being able to drink coffee before a morning game, and being relieved if someone brought adult beverages to an afternoon match up to 'take the edge off.' The stress would sometimes start as early as noon and I remember once having to have a glass of wine at lunch (the game was probably at 5!) to calm myself down. I cheered so loudly I nearly passed out a few times.
I'm not sure why--but I think I care more than the average parent--and probably more than I should. I should likely be glad that I do not have something more serious to care about than how my son's little league team does.
When I used to come to Little League Opening Day and see the big boys playing on the Majors field at Blossom Hill Park, I thought those days were so far away, but suddenly my son was 11 and we were there. Nicky was drafted by a rock star manager and we had a great team and were off and running.
Majors is a little bit of a separation from the men and the boys. At the majors level, boys are pretty serious about baseball, and most players receive private coaching, play fall travel ball, or both. In majors, though you still have 12 boys on the team, only 9 bat. Batters can be removed from the line up and can be 'subbed' with other batters. Players at the majors level are only guaranteed three innings in the field and ONE at bat. If you're not a strong player, you don't play much, and this can be frustrating. A lot of boys quit after AAA, and many others stay an extra year in AAA and play only their final little league season in majors.
But enough of that....
Nicholas has said that his first year in the majors was his best year in Little League. The 12 year olds were leaders and were good to the younger players and the 11 year olds were talented and met the challenges of playing at a new level well. In fact, four out the five 11 year olds made the all star team that year. The team wasn't just lucky, they were good. They enjoyed playing together.
Another of my all time favorites
I love this picture so much it is still my screen saver one year later
The same team after the tournament championship
They lost, but no tears here!
The LGLL Majors Nationals
We will miss it.....
And now for some pictures!!
There's nothing like playing baseball with your best buddies
Nicky, your family is so proud of you!
Our favorite Little Leaguer!
This picture is nothing about Little League
and everything about being friends forever